Turn-Around Tuesday – Don’t Despair!

Posted on September 18, 2018 by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith

 

“Cain said to the Lord, “My punishment is greater than I can bear. Behold, you have driven me today away from the ground, and from your face I shall be hidden. I shall be a fugitive and a wanderer on the earth, and whoever finds me will kill me.” Then the Lord said to him, “Not so! If anyone kills Cain, vengeance shall be taken on him sevenfold.” And the Lord put a mark on Cain, lest any who found him should attack him.” (Genesis 4:13–15, ESV)

 

 “My punishment is greater than I can bear.”How many times have we failed to think through decisions made in the heat of our emotions, only to mourn all that we’ve now lost? “Hindsight is always 20/20,” my mother used to say. How true that is with the ruined lives we have to live because of our impetuousness.

Reality slapped Cain in the face. Perhaps he didn’t think about God’s reaction. Maybe he didn’t think God would react. Living in God’s goodness and kindness, despite the removal from the Garden of Eden, may have lulled him into a false sense of security.

Now, dealing with the naked truth of God’s justice Cain, like so many of us, has come to realize too late that one bad choice can scar the rest of our lives. Attempting to downplay or cover-up the results of bad judgment won’t erase them, as anyone who is older and wiser will tell you.

In the midst of Cain’s despair, God responded. In His response, we see God’s character of mercy: “Not so! If anyone kills Cain, vengeance shall be taken on him sevenfold.” And the Lord put a mark on Cain, lest any who found him should attack him.”

Not only was God watching Cain and promised vengeance upon anyone who attacked and killed him, God also was watching out for him. Placing a mark on Cain – we have no idea what that was, contrary to many fantasy theologies that exist today – people of His day knew that God was not only watching him, He was also God’s property.

Today, in the midst of your gloom, stop. Remember, no matter how bad it is, God is watching you and He is watching over you. Cry out to Jesus right now. Ask for His mercy. Ask Him to give you what you don’t deserve. He is filled with compassion and love. Do it now.

 

Turn-Around Tuesdays are designed to bring hope and help, insight and encouragement to those of us who are simply overwhelmed by the flood of problems life throws at us. No one is immune to trials and troubles, but God has a way of lifting us from life’s torrents. Each short thought is written by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith, Executive Director of Eagles In Leadership, and comes from his life-journey with the God who never leaves us or forsakes us. He welcomes your comments below.

 

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Magnificent Marriage Monday – Hiding From God!

Posted on September 17, 2018 by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith

 

“Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves. Then the man and his wife heard the sound of the LordGod walking in the garden at the time of the evening breeze, and they hid from the LordGod among the trees of the garden.” (Genesis 3:7–8, CSB)

 

Then the man and wife heard the sound of the Lord God. How many times have we experienced this ourselves? We knew that what we were doing was in direct violation to God’s declared words as recorded in the pages of the Bible part we knew, but …

So, we jumped in. We did what we knew we shouldn’t. We chose to violate the trust God had given to us. We ate the fruit, so to speak. And, when that happened, we realized almost immediately how wrong it was. Our conscience ached. Our hearts were heavy. And it didn’t really matter that we did it together, because we both felt miserable.

And then God shows up! Why did He wait until afterwards? Why didn’t He come before we failed? He could of helped us do right! And the guilt grows, the pain flows, the fear … oh, the fear! What will He do to us?

We tried to make things right. Look, we put these leaves over our nakedness. But what we tried to fix, God saw for what it was: Just a cover-up. God knew all along they were naked. After all, He handcrafted them!

And now, here He comes! What will He say? What will He do to us? Oh … that fear … terror, really! We are guilty and we know the punishment will come. So, we hide from God. Close our Bibles. Stop attending worship. Disengage from our “Christian” friends.

You know the scenario. You know the cover-up. You know that it won’t work. So, today, while there is grace and mercy available, fall on your knees – together – and cry out to Jesus for forgiveness. Ask Him for mercy – ask Him not to give you what you deserve. Ask Him to welcome you back with open arms.

Tell Him your pain. Tell Him your heart. Trust Him with it. He made it. He loves you. He is waiting for you – both of you!

 

 

Magnificent Marriage Mondays are helpful hints, clues, ideas, and solutions for the child of God who is looking for a spouse, in a relationship with someone, or are already married. Each post seeks to bring help, hope, and honesty to your life and make the rest of your life, the best of your life. They are written by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith, Executive Director of Eagles In Leadership, and come from his 38 years, 5 months and 2 days experience with his wife, Melodee, who was promoted to Heaven on November 11, 2017. He is currently seeking God’s will for his new life partner. He welcomes your comments below.

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Hope For Today – Great Faith in Our Great God Receives Great Victory!

Posted on September 16, 2018 by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith

I’m Dr. Matthew Lee Smith and I want to share some Hope For Today to encourage you to increase your faith so you can increase God’s reward in your life!

Hope For Today is a part of the ministry of Eagles In Leadership. If you would like to know more about the hope God gives and His abundant life through Jesus Christ, I would invite you to check out our website: EaglesInLeadership.org.

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Faith Filled Friday – Allowing God to Guide Through Generosity!

Posted on September 14, 2018 by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith

“And Lot lifted up his eyes and saw that the Jordan Valley was well watered everywhere like the garden of the Lord, like the land of Egypt, in the direction of Zoar. (This was before the Lord destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah.) So Lot chose for himself all the Jordan Valley, and Lot journeyed east. Thus they separated from each other. Abram settled in the land of Canaan, while Lot settled among the cities of the valley and moved his tent as far as Sodom. Now the men of Sodom were wicked, great sinners against the Lord.” (Genesis 13:10–13, ESV)

So Lot chose for himself all the Jordan Valley, and Lot journeyed east. Thus they separated from each other. Selfishness is such an ugly thing. And never does it sting more than when we allow someone else to choose first. We see all the opportunities and possibilities, but because of our character of Christ-likeness, we allow the other person to pick first. And they do. They pick the best and leave us with the rest.

Time and again this has happened to me. I am, by choice, a nice guy. And I have lost count of the number of times being a nice guy has left me burned. Or so I thought at the beginning.

What’s intriguing about this account is the way it rings so true to real life … our daily grind. With the silver lining in Lot’s choice also came the gangrenous reality of his choice … “Now the men of Sodom were wicked, great sinners against the Lord.”

What seems to be a great choice often comes with a hefty price tag. And that’s the lesson of faith God wants to burn into our being. Just because something looks good doesn’t mean it is good. Allowing others to choose first – leading with generosity – often shields us from the cancers of life.

One of the great lessons of faith is related to us in these words: “God has the means to give you much more than that.” (2 Chronicles 25:9, TLT) Whenever we feel that we have lost what cannot be recovered, that too much has been squandered, God wants us to understand that He is able to do “far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us.” (Ephesians 3:20, ESV)

Today, trust God and lead with generosity. God has your back!

 

Faith Filled Fridays hope to boost your trust in God and accelerate your daring and courage in everyday life. Dr. Matthew Lee Smith, Executive Director of Eagles In Leadership, writes each encouragement out of a heart that has known both great joy and great loss – his wife of 38 years, 5 months and 2 days was promoted to Heaven on November 11, 2017. Through every experience, God has proven Himself more than faithful and trustworthy. He welcomes your comments below.

 

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Train Them Thursday – Clearing Up The Confusion!

Posted on September 13, 2018 by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith

 

“No one has seen God at any time; the only begotten God who is in the bosom of the Father, He has explained Him.” (John 1:18, NASB95)

 

He has explained Him. Confusion is never fun! You’re at one restaurant; your friends went to the other one with the same name. You wait wondering. They are still driving. You get frustrated, they are having a good time talking and driving. You call and they don’t get the problem. Then, they try to find you and go around in circles. Eventually, an hour later, lunch is ordered and everyone is starving. Confusion never yields the results we hoped for.

Have you ever asked people what God is like? Ask ten people and you will get at least ten different ideas. People seem to make God into their own image. They design God based on their desires, their hopes, and their thoughts. The trouble is, God isn’t like our thoughts or desires. God is like … well, Himself!

You know how it happens when two people like each other. They begin to fill in the blanks they don’t know with the hopes they have. The result is often hurt feelings and pain. It’s never a good policy to assume we know things we don’t know. Nowhere is this more deadly than when we pretend to know what God is like.

Disciples of Jesus use a different strategy … they choose to tell people what God says He is like. And they get their authoritative information from within the covers of their Bibles. What’s even more crucial is that they check it out before they share it.

Many of us use some Smartphone app to choose a place for that lunch that we hope our friends can find. We read the reviews and choose based on the comments. However, sometimes our likes and the likes of the people who wrote the reviews are different.

Having a personal, experiential, time-tested relationship with God through Jesus Christ is what being a disciple is all about. Not only can we quote a verse or two to explain God but we can also tell others how those thoughts came to reality in our own lives once we applied them to our difficulties. Nothing rings more true than someone who’s been there and done that. A disciple of Jesus has the experience of both.

 

Train Them Thursdays seeks to wed the Great Commission directive of Jesus with the practice He employed while on Earth. Each nugget is meant to encourage the reader with a “can-do” spirit to realize that discipleship is something each person is both capable of and empowered to accomplish. Dr. Matthew Lee Smith, Executive Director of Eagles In Leadership, writes each thought and they flow out of decades of his tried and true field-testing in multiple settings from rural to inner city. He welcomes your comments below.

 

 

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Willing Worker Wednesday – Obscure But Not Out Of Sight!

Posted on September 12, 2018 by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith

 

“In the sixth month, the angel Gabriel was sent by God to a town in Galilee called Nazareth, to a virgin engaged to a man named Joseph, of the house of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. And the angel came to her and said, “Rejoice, favored woman! The Lord is with you.””

(Luke 1:26–28, HCSB)

 

Rejoice, favored woman! The Lord is with you. It doesn’t matter where we are, what we do, whom we were born to, what nationality we are, what gender we possess, or what age we are. God knows us. God watches us. God listens to us. God hears our thoughts. God knows our hearts. And, when God likes what He sees and hears, He acts in us, through us, for us, and to us to accomplish something greater.

In case you have missed it, God chooses those He wants to use in greater ways. He does it on the same principle as Major League Baseball does in the United States. He scouts us! God listens to the reports of our service, our attitude, our compassion, our passion for Him, and a dozen dozens of other things. Then, when the right mission comes along, He chooses to favor us – to smile upon us, literally – and place us into those greater things He has prepared for us.

Being a willing worker for the King of kings is an honor and a privilege, for sure. However, if we want to get to the nitty-gritty, serving God is all about our hearts. God favors those whom He is pleased with.

For Mary, in an obscure and notorious hamlet, being a young woman would mean few, if any influential person would ever know her. This pure, godly, alert, intelligent woman had caught the eye of Joseph. But there was Another’s eye she had caught. Someone more influential, Someone more powerful, Someone more captivating … for Mary’s life had drawn the attention of the Lord of Glory Himself!

Today, as you serve, choose to do it for the sheer joy of God. Make Him smile with your kindness to strangers. Choose to emulate his Son, who was known on Earth as, “the friend of sinners.” Step out into the mess of people’s lives and wash some feet. Clean up their messes.

Choose today to simply love your neighbor – literally and figuratively. Gain the smile of God. Remember, He’s watching!

 

Willing Worker Wednesdays are dedicated to explaining the core realties of servant leadership – the Biblical principles and methods used by God’s faithful people throughout time. They further reflect the lifestyle of Jesus, the King of kings and Lord of lords as He walked on this earth announcing the Kingdom of God had arrived. These brief lessons are written by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith, Executive Director of Eagles In Leadership, and come from his extensive ministry within the local church, in higher education, in church consulting and as a Biblical author and leader. He welcomes your comments below.

 

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Turn-Around Tuesday – Living With The Consequences!

Posted on September 11, 2018 by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith

 

“And the Lord said, “What have you done? The voice of your brother’s blood is crying to me from the ground. And now you are cursed from the ground, which has opened its mouth to receive your brother’s blood from your hand. When you work the ground, it shall no longer yield to you its strength. You shall be a fugitive and a wanderer on the earth.” (Genesis 4:10–12, ESV)

 

“Now you are cursed.” Perhaps one of the greatest misunderstandings within some branches of Christianity today is the idea of consequences. While we all hold to the enormous kindness of God’s grace, the application of that gift often gets murky and, well, just plain wrong, many times.

An illustration I often use when speaking of God’s grace goes like this: “Can you get God’s forgiveness if you get drunk?” The answer, of course, is, “Yes!” Then I ask, “Can you get God’s forgiveness if you get drunk and wander out into the street?” And again, the answer is, “Yes, of course!” A final question clarifies the issue we are talking about here when I ask, “Do you get the leg back after the truck runs over you while you were drunk wandering in the street, even though you received His forgiveness?” And the answer to that question is, resoundingly, “No. We don’t.”

Consequences are the things God places in our lives to remind us that His ways are better than ours. With the curse of Cain came three permanent realities: The ground would no longer yield its strength. He would be a fugitive on the earth. And, he would be a wanderer on the earth.

With sin comes change. And those changes are most unpleasant. Grace will not erase what God has decreed and determined. So, if you are in a self-imposed situation because of your sin, the first thing that needs to happen is repentance. Turn around. Look up. Cry out to Jesus. Plead for His mercy. His mercy withholds from us what we do horribly deserve. He will forgive. He will restore you to Himself.

Then, we must change the direction of our lives by choosing God’s ways instead of venting, raging, yelling, and throwing a temper tantrum on others. Turn your pain into gain today. Turn to Jesus.

 

Turn-Around Tuesdays are designed to bring hope and help, insight and encouragement to those of us who are simply overwhelmed by the flood of problems life throws at us. No one is immune to trials and troubles, but God has a way of lifting us from life’s torrents. Each short thought is written by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith, Executive Director of Eagles In Leadership, and comes from his life-journey with the God who never leaves us or forsakes us. He welcomes your comments below.

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Magnificent Marriage Monday – Divide and Conquer!

Posted on September 10, 2018 by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith

 

“Now the serpent was the most cunning of all the wild animals that the LordGod had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You can’t eat from any tree in the garden’?”” (Genesis 3:1, CSB)

 

Did God really say? God’s design for a magnificent marriage is all about working together, trusting one another, depending on each other and choosing to accomplish God’s goals as a couple.

That’s why Satan loves to divide and conquer! He knows that when either one of us gets alone, we are vulnerable. It’s not about smarts or cleverness. It’s all about the combined power of two people in union to one another and to God. Lucifer can’t stand that. He can’t break that easily. He knows we are easier to destroy alone. That’s why he comes when we are in the midst of our daily routines. He’s hoping our tasks will distract us from seeing his true intention: To divide and conquer.

Notice his simply strategy: He questions what God has said, but he does it in a nonchalant, almost interested fashion. Inserting the virus into Eve’s thoughts, he chooses to engage in a “harmless discussion” with the most malicious of intentions.

As I “hear” this encounter in my mind’s ear, I often hear the Accuser’s melodic voice choose his tone and words with the utmost of care. He doesn’t want Eve’s defenses up. On the contrary, he longs to “befriend” her. Thus, I sense, a disarming of her defenses here. It must have been some talk because even Adam was convinced to eat once the meal was served!

Today, as you go about the mundane and endless list of things you have to do to live this wonderful life God has given us, remember, we are better together. We are stronger when we engage the questions of life together. God gave us a partner for our benefit. And even the simple questions, the ones we know the answers to, are so better answered when we talk them over together.

God longs for us to succeed and not fail. He knows all too well how cunning our Enemy is. And He has chosen that special person to work as the other part of our mind, will, and emotions – our soul mate – for a very special reason: The preservation of our life and our future. So, talk – a lot – and thwart every plan of the Evil One before it takes root!

 

 

Magnificent Marriage Mondays are helpful hints, clues, ideas, and solutions for the child of God who is looking for a spouse, in a relationship with someone, or are already married. Each post seeks to bring help, hope, and honesty to your life and make the rest of your life, the best of your life. They are written by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith, Executive Director of Eagles In Leadership, and come from his 38 years, 5 months and 2 days experience with his wife, Melodee, who was promoted to Heaven on November 11, 2017. He is currently seeking God’s will for his new life partner. He welcomes your comments below.

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Hope For Today – Stepping Out By Faith

Posted on September 9, 2018 by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith

I’m Dr. Matthew Lee Smith and I want to share some Hope For Today to encourage you to please God and Step Out By Faith!

Hope For Today is a part of the ministry of Eagles In Leadership. If you would like to know more about the hope God gives and His abundant life through Jesus Christ, I would invite you to check out our website: EaglesInLeadership.org.

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Faith Filled Friday – Faith Trusts What Hasn’t Happened!

Posted on September 7, 2018 by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith

 

“Abram passed through the land to the place at Shechem, to the oak of Moreh. At that time the Canaanites were in the land. Then the Lord appeared to Abram and said, “To your offspring I will give this land.” So he built there an altar to the Lord, who had appeared to him.”

(Genesis 12:6–7, ESV)

 

So he built there an altar to the Lord. So often in life, we struggle between the promise and the possession. Someone tells us they will do something but we doubt. We know they are good to their word but they have made a bigger promise. Will they follow through? Will they do what they said they would? Doubt drills deep into our faith with people and with God.

Abram had made the long journey with all that he had. He had toured the land and enjoyed what he saw. Then, that night at camp, God promised him that the land he was standing on was his. His descendants would enjoy a heritage that God had promised Abram way back in Haran. Here he was. Where God promised. What was unseen then was real estate now. Promise became possession.

The writer of Hebrews in the New Testament tells us, “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.” (Hebrews 11:1, ESV) What is interesting is that the word translated “conviction” here can also be used to describe “real estate.”

God wants us to stand on His promises as if they are a done deal. In other words, His promises are our possession. Faith is so sure that God will deliver what He promises that believing God is like standing on our possession before we’ve ever left to pursue it.

To celebrate God’s gift, Abram worshiped. He chose to stop looking and start honoring the God who had called him and blessed his entire journey with safety and direction. Abram dropped all that he had in worship once again before the feet of the One who alone owns it all and gifts it to whomever He chooses. There, in Canaan, Abram rolled all his praise upon the Lord God Almighty who knows the beginning from the end and who alone is worthy of our praise.

Today, stop, drop, and roll whether you are at the promise or headed toward the possession!

 

Faith Filled Fridays hopes to boost your trust in God and accelerate your daring and courage in everyday life. Dr. Matthew Lee Smith, Executive Director of Eagles In Leadership, writes each encouragement out of a heart that has known both great joy and great loss – his wife of 38 years, 5 months and 2 days was promoted to Heaven on November 11, 2017. Through every experience, God has proven Himself more than faithful and trustworthy. He welcomes your comments below.

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