From Sick Churches to Healthy Churches (Part 1)

Win Arn has said, that 80-85% of all American Churches are in decline! We know why this is and we know what to do. Often however, local churches refuse to take the steps necessary to bring about health and, as a natural result, growth.

Sick Churches …

Are guided by griping. Like termites in softwood, the complaining of the spiritually immature can eat away at the faith of even the strongest follower of Christ.

Are led by individual lording. People think they have a right because of their giving / longevity / office. Yet Jesus was clear that such a manner, while in leadership, is totally unacceptable (Mark 10.42-45).

Do ‘ministry’ by menacing. What I mean by this is that they intimidate until things are done their way. These people use two key tools of intimidation: 1) Tantrums – this is more commonly known as the phone blitz. These people call the leaders who are more sensitive to their complaints and blitz them with their vile acid. 2) Threats – as they talk to leaders, they are really saying, “If I don’t get my way, I’m going to leave.” This is ‘the squeaky wheel gets the grease’ mentality that has kept many a church from growth and health. What most churches are afraid to do, it seems, is what good mechanics do: Repeated squeaks means the part needs replacing so it doesn’t destroy the vehicle.

In part 2 of this article, we will look at what makes a church healthy.

Adapted from Dr. Smith’s new book in process, “The Tantrum-Driven Church.”

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Transformed Episode #084 – Questions the New Year Brings: Question 2

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As I think about how Jesus looks at life, I realize that his perspective is so much different than mine. Like buttons on an elevator, my core social group will either lift me or they will take me down. The Bible calls the Church the ʻbody of Christ.ʼ In other words, who I center the core of my life with Godʼs will determine what my life will become. Let me invite you to a talk about whatʼs at the center of our lives and how that can bring amazing help and hope in 2010! Letʼs open our Bible to Mark 3.31-35 and listen in as Pastor Matt answers the second question the New Year brings … With whom will I socially live life with this year?

We hope you have made the choice to put God first in your life in 2010. Starting the New Year thinking Godʼs thoughts is made easier with Pastor Mattʼs book, In His Image.

We are sure this book will show you both how to love like God loves and enjoy his direction on a daily basis. Copies are available on the side bar at the EaglesInLeadership.org website. We encourage you to order yours today.

You can also contact Dr. Smith in one of three ways:
• Commenting on this post at eaglesinleadership.org
• or by emailing us at transformedpodcast@gmail.com
• or you can call our voicemail line at 206-350-1566. Leave a comment that we can play on a future episode

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Healthy churches exhibit certain attitudes…

Perry Noble recently wrote, “I am seeing more young men rise up and plant churches…men with vision, passion and courage, men who refuse to accept the status quo, men with a genuine passion to see people far from God come to know Christ, men who refuse to become people pleasing pastors and who also refuse to allow critics to shape the trajectory of their ministry!  Men who have been called to lead…and by God’s grace and gifting that is EXACTLY what they do!

“His church is GROWING, lives are being changed, families are being put back together, the excluded are being included, addicts are being set free, repentance is being lived out…and JESUS is getting the glory for it all (PerryNoble.com, January 4, 2010).”

So what causes growing churches to grow? They grow because they are healthy. Health fosters life, and life reproduces.

In my three decades of working with churches, I have noticed that healthy churches are composed of people who have the following attitudes …

  • The people are Humble – humble people seek to help others and do not need to be ‘all the cheese and half the macaroni’ when it comes to either seeking or serving in ministry. They are relationally deferential.
  • The people are Evangelistic – evangelistic people reach out and invite their friends into their lives, of which Jesus is the center. They are relationally connective.
  • The people are Adaptable – adaptable people know that what works today may not work tomorrow, so they willing change, even when it’s inconvenient. They are relationally flexible.
  • The people are Loving – loving people are sacrificial by nature, therefore they give of their time, talents, treasures and tribes. They are relationally generous.
  • The people are Transparent – transparent people draw others into their lives whether they are visiting, working, running errands or partying with friends. They are relationally open.
  • The people are Helpful – helpful people have the ability to discern the needs of others before they are expressed and then meet those needs. They are relationally supporting.
  • The people are Yielded – yielded people have chosen to set aside their needs and their agenda to meet the needs of others. They are relationally assisting.

Like those with spiritual gifts, no one has all of these attitudes. However, again, like with spiritual gifts, the more of these attitudes that are found in a local church the more the level of heath and vitality increases. Nurturing these attitudes raises the viability of a local church so that it will grow and reproduce itself in the lives of others.

The question today is, how are we birthing and nourishing such attitudes in the people we lead?

Excerpted from Dr. Smith’s new book in process, “The Tantrum-Driven Church.”

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Sick churches exhibit certain attitudes…

Several years ago I can remember reading the following: “75% of American churches are dying, 23% are plateaued (by taking people from the dying churches), and only 2% of American churches are growing.”

Having worked for three decades in the American church, mostly in attempting to rescue dying churches, I have found four common attitudes in sick churches.

  • The people are Selfish

Churches are simply people in a local geographic location. Every church is made up of people in various stages of personal and spiritual development (1 Corinthians 3.1-3). When churches are filled with “jealousy and strife” there is evidence that congregation lives their life in “the flesh and [is] behaving only in a human way.”

  • The people are Ingrown

A church begins to die when the members of the church stop seeking the salvation of their family and friends. As Len Sweet says in So Beautiful, “Your baptism is your commissioning as a missionary. We are both ministers and missionaries. Every disciple has a ministry to the body and a mission to the world (31). Sick churches simply don’t bring their friends to worship, they don’t share their faith in the workplace and they don’t encourage people to become members.

  • The people are Critical

Corinth was an example of a sick church – as evidenced by Paul’s repeated attempts to bring it back to health through visits and letters. At one point, after great exertion, he writes, “For I fear that perhaps when I come I may find you not as I wish, and that you may find me not as you wish—that perhaps there may be quarreling, jealousy, anger, hostility, slander, gossip, conceit, and disorder (2 Corinthians 12:20, ESV). Recent polling has revealed that 50% of ministers would leave the ministry if they had another way of earning an income! 85-90% of pastors said their greatest problem is dealing with problem people and disgruntled people. When a church eviscerates the pastor’s heart, decline is sure to follow.

  • The people are Kill-joys

Faith is a bench mark for spiritual health within the body of Christ. Faith is risky, apart from a close and personal relationship with the Lord Jesus. Sick churches promote people by popularity, which often means bypassing the Biblical admonitions for character and spiritual maturity. Then, when a ministry leader or the pastor comes along with a God-lead mission, those in leadership start out with their worldly heart and ask, “How much will it cost?” or “Will the insurance cover it?” In little over 10 minutes the wind of the Spirit has been sucked out of the sails of faith and all hope and promise is drained away in a barrage of banality and carnality. Those seeking to follow the leading of the Spirit soon drift away seeking a healthy climate of God-followers and decline continues in the unhealthy church.

Sick churches fill our land these days. Restoring health to such a situation involves correcting these four attitudes. In our next blog, we will discuss how healthy churches exhibit a different set of attitudes.

Excerpted from Dr. Smith’s new book in process, “The Tantrum-Driven Church.”

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Transformed Episode #083 – Questions the New Year Brings: Question 1

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Today we begin a new series entitled, Questions the New Year Brings!

As the new calendars go up, we all feel something refreshing about ʻbeing done withʼ the last year. Whether it was a year of incredible accomplishment or terrible hardships, a fresh calendar can breath new hope and life into our lives. What will God do this year?

How will I be able to make a significant difference for him? So many questions flow around the simple act of setting up the 2010 calendar.
5 questions come to mind as Pastor Matt thinks about the New Year. As he shares them with you in this series, perhaps they will help you, as you look ahead, plan and seek Godʼs perfect will for your life in 2010.

Letʼs open our Bibleʼs to Matthew 6.25-34 and listen in as Pastor Matt answers the our first question … What will I sacrifice in my worship of Christ this year?

We hope you have made the choice to put God first in your life in 2010. Starting the New Year thinking Godʼs thoughts is made easier with Pastor Mattʼs book, In His Image.

We are sure this book will show you both how to love like God loves and enjoy his direction on a daily basis. Copies are available on the side bar at the EaglesInLeadership.org website. We encourage you to order yours today.

You can also contact Dr. Smith in one of three ways:
• Commenting on this post at eaglesinleadership.org
• or by emailing us at transformedpodcast@gmail.com
• or you can call our voicemail line at 206-350-1566. Leave a comment that we can play on a future episode

If you enjoyed this podcast, please leave a review at iTunes or Podcast Pickle. Feel free to pass this episode on to a friend.

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Happy New Year from Eagles In Leadership!

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It is our deepest prayer and hope

that 2010 will be a year of

great blessing, wonderful success and warmest intimacy

with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ!

Matt, Melodee, Tabitha and Mike

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Questions the New Year Brings

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by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith

As the new calendars go up, we all feel something refreshing about ‘being done with’ the last year. Whether it was a year of incredible accomplishment or terrible hardships, a fresh calendar can breath new hope and life into our lives. What will God do this year? How will I be able to make a significant difference for him? So many questions flow around the simple act of setting up the 2010 calendar.

As I have been thinking about these thoughts, a verse keeps flowing into my mind. Considering the work we do, Paul writes, “each one’s work will become manifest, for the Day will disclose it, because it will be revealed by fire, and the fire will test what sort of work each one has done (1 Corinthians 3:13, ESV).

While I cannot do anything about 2009, I can do something about the coming year! 5 questions come to mind as I think about the New Year. Let me share them with you, and perhaps they will help you, as you look ahead, plan and seek God’s perfect will for your life in 2010.

Question 1: What will I sacrifice in my worship of Christ this year?

This question focuses my heart, mind and soul on the issue of honor and love. As I look at my life, I know that I can talk about my love for God, but talk is cheap. David told us that he ‘would not offer to God that which cost him nothing.’ At the center of this question is this key thought. How I use my time, my talents and my treasure will be the real demonstration of my love and honor of Jesus. Let me encourage you to reread Matthew 6.25-34 and allow the Spirit of God to stir your heart and soul as you enter a discussion with God that is sure to inspire and refire your soul! I am already coming to the conclusion that those who love God joyfully sacrifice the first part of their resources to God as their gift of love!

Question 2: With whom will I socially live life with this year?

As I think about how Jesus looks at life, I realize that his perspective is so much different than mine. Like buttons on an elevator, my core social group will either lift me or they will take me down. The Bible calls the Church the ‘body of Christ.’ In other words, with whom I center the core of my life, those people will determine what my life will become. In reading Mark 3.31-35 I have to ask which of these will dominate my life in 2010: Family, Friends, Coworkers, Community Groups, or my Church Family? Let me invite you to talk to God and some close friends about what’s at the center of our lives and how that could bring amazing help and hope in 2010! As I have been considering these things, I see that those who intimately live their lives surrounded by God’s family find the joy and pleasure of His presence with each contact!

Question 3: To what degree will I seek Christ in the coming year?

2009 was filled with distractions, not the least of which was the economy. One of the key changes in my life that I want to make in 2010 is to stay closer to Jesus every day and all throughout each day. Life has a tendency to tear us away from intimacy with Jesus. Looking at the various ways we walk with Christ, we can discuss with God how each of these affects us and, ultimately molds our life. In rereading Mark 12.28-34 I have come to see that I can follow Jesus either at his right hand, from within the crowd, or from a distance. I know you will want to explore how you can discover a better life in the New Year by talking these things over with the Lord and a close friend or family member! In my discussions I am already being nudged to see that daily proximity to Jesus breeds “the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23, ESV).

Question 4: How will I serve as if others are Jesus before me in the coming year?

Schedules from work, school, community groups and church seem to clutter our lives at times and we are almost driven to insanity as we seek to make sense of the mess. In the coming year, I want to serve people as Jesus did when he was on Earth. But how do I do that? What does that mean? Jesus seems to make some things clear for me as I reread Mark 10.35-45. I can have the attitude to serve others as a slave, as a servant, or as one to be served. As we hash out what it means to live life in 2010 in a manner that imitates the service of Jesus to others, I hope you will see what I am seeing, and that is that our attitude toward humble servanthood that demonstrates our Christ-likeness more than thousands of professions and claims.

Question 5: With whom will I share Christ in the coming year?

Perhaps the greatest change I desire for the New Year is in the area of reaching out to those who are without Christ and to those who have abandoned the faith. Connecting with others to become a good friend takes time – one friend says it takes two years to become good friends with another. If that is true, I had better get going with some new relationships now. There are so many people who live life lost … family, friends and foes … who are looking for the purpose and significance that only Jesus can bring. I am being reminded from Jesus in John 20.19-23 that my compassion for others is directly measured by my interest in being a part of their lives! Will you join me in talking over with God the burning reason for still being on Earth?

We all at Eagles In Leadership with you the Happiest and Most Prosperous New Year as you are blessed with God’s favor and presence!

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Barna's End of Year Review

lwcI_corp_news_Stetzer_SSWe welcome Ed Stetzer to Eagles In Leadership with his poignant guest column today. Ed first posted this blog Monday December 21, 2009 at his blog and he has graciously allowed us to reprint it here.

Ed Stetzer is LifeWay’s director of LifeWay Research and missiologist in residence. Before coming to LifeWay in June 2007, Stetzer served as the senior director of the Center for Missional Research at the North American Mission Board (NAMB) for nearly nine years.

Stetzer holds a doctor of philosophy degree from The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and a doctor of ministry degree from Beeson Divinity School, as well as two master’s degrees and a bachelor’s degree. He has planted churches, served as a pastor and helped revitalize churches in four states.

The author of multiple books for B&H Publishing Group including Breaking the Missional Code, Comeback Churches: How 300 Churches Turned Around and How Yours Can Too, and Lost and Found: The Younger Unchurched and the Churches that Reach Them, Stetzer is recognized as an authority on evangelism and church planting.

He and his wife, Donna, have three children.

Stetzer holds a doctor of philosophy degree from The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and a doctor of ministry degree from Beeson Divinity School, as well as two master’s degrees and a bachelor’s degree. He has planted churches, served as a pastor and helped revitalize churches in four states.

The author of multiple books for B&H Publishing Group including Breaking the Missional Code, Comeback Churches: How 300 Churches Turned Around and How Yours Can Too, and Lost and Found: The Younger Unchurched and the Churches that Reach Them, Stetzer is recognized as an authority on evangelism and church planting.

He and his wife, Donna, have three children.

Barna’s End of Year Review

The Barna Group has just released four themes they see from their research in 2009. Read the excerpts below, check out the full article here, and come back to discuss.

Theme 1: Increasingly, Americans are more interested in faith and spirituality than in Christianity.
“Faith remains a hot topic in America these days,” George Barna commented, expanding on the theme. “Politicians, athletes, cultural philosophers, teachers, entertainers, musicians – nearly everyone has something to say about faith, religion, spirituality, morality, and belief these days. But as the fundamental values and assumptions of our nation continue to shift, so do our ideas about faith and spirituality. Many of our basic assumptions are no longer firm or predictable.

“Our studies consistently demonstrate – as explained in unChristian, the book by my colleague, David Kinnaman – that being a Christian or associating with the Christian faith is not as attractive to Americans as it used to be…

Some of the related survey results Barna cited from this year’s studies included:

  • Just 50% of adults contend that Christianity is still the automatic faith of choice in the US
  • Nearly nine out of every ten adults (88%) agreed either strongly or somewhat that their religious faith is very important in their life
  • 74% said their faith is becoming more important in their life
  • Substantive awareness of other faith groups is minimal; even simple name awareness of some groups, such as Wicca, is tiny (only 45% have heard of Wicca)
  • Most self-identified Christians are comfortable with the idea that the Bible and the sacred books from non-Christian religions all teach the same truths and principles
  • Half of all adults (50%) argue that a growing number of people they know are tired of having the same church experience

Theme 2: Faith in the American context is now individual and customized. Americans are comfortable with an altered spiritual experience as long as they can participate in the shaping of that faith experience.

“Now that we are comfortable with the idea of being spiritual as opposed to devoutly Christian,” Barna pointed out, “Americans typically draw from a broad treasury of moral, spiritual and ethical sources of thought to concoct a uniquely personal brand of faith. Feeling freed from the boundaries established by the Christian faith, and immersed in a postmodern society which revels in participation, personal expression, satisfying relationships, and authentic experiences, we become our own unchallenged spiritual authorities, defining truth and reality as we see fit.”

Some of the survey findings that related to this theme included:

  • About half of all adults (45%) say they are willing to try a new church or even a new form of church
  • 71% say they will develop their own slate of religious beliefs rather than accept a package of beliefs promoted by a church or denomination
  • Barely one-third of self-identified Christians (36%) strongly agree that it is important for followers of Christ to maintain positive relationships with people who are not Christians
  • Two-thirds of adults (64%) are willing to experience and express their faith in new or different environments or structures than they have in the past
  • Only one-third (34%) believe in absolute moral truth

Theme 3: Biblical literacy is neither a current reality nor a goal in the U.S.

Barna’s findings related to Bible knowledge and application indicate that little progress, if any, is being made toward assisting people to become more biblically literate.

“Bible reading has become the religious equivalent of sound-bite journalism. When people read from the Bible they typically open it, read a brief passage without much regard for the context, and consider the primary thought or feeling that the passage provided. If they are comfortable with it, they accept it; otherwise, they deem it interesting but irrelevant to their life, and move on. There is shockingly little growth evident in people’s understanding of the fundamental themes of the scriptures and amazingly little interest in deepening their knowledge and application of biblical principles.

Some of the survey-based results that led Barna to his conclusions included the following:

  • Less than one out of every five born again adults (19%) has a biblical worldview, which is unchanged in the past 15 years
  • Just half of all self-identified Christians firmly believe that the Bible is totally accurate in all of the principles (not the facts, just the principles) that it teaches
  • Barely one-quarter of adults (27%) are confident that Satan exists
  • An overwhelming majority of self-identified Christians (81%) contend that spiritual maturity is achieved by following the rules in the Bible

Theme 4: Effective and periodic measurement of spirituality – conducted personally or through a church – is not common at this time and it is not likely to become common in the near future.

“There are two levels on which evaluation of where we stand spiritually can take place,” noted the California-based author. “There can be external measurement, such as that conducted by pastors, teachers, coaches or peers, and there can be self-evaluation. At the moment, we’re seeing very little of either form of review related to a person’s spiritual condition.

“Not surprisingly,” he continued, “our research found that a majority of churchgoing adults are uncertain as to what their church would define as a ‘healthy, spiritually mature follower of Christ’ and they were no more likely to have personally developed a clear notion of such a life.

“It may well be that spiritual evaluation is so uncommon because people fear that the results might suggest the need for different growth strategies or for more aggressive engagement in the growth process. No matter what the underlying reason is, the bottom line among both the clergy and laity was indifference toward their acknowledged lack of evaluation. That suggests there is not likely to be much change in this dimension in the immediate future. In other words, as we examine the discipleship landscape, what we see is what we get – and what we will keep getting for some time.”

So, as you read through the themes that have come through Barna’s research, what do you think the good news and bad news is for the church in America? Share your thoughts in the comments.

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Transformed Episode #082 – Walking Into the Wind

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We wrap up our very practical study, Forgiveness – The Breath of Life!, today. Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the Transformed podcast, I’m your host Mike Powers. Today’s episode is entitled Walking Into the Wind or When There’s No ‘I’m Sorry!’ promises to be very helpful.

We are all called and commanded to be forgiving people. That is hard under any conditions. But what if the offender does not, will not, or cannot repent? Let’s join Dr. Matthew Lee Smith as he teaches the congregation at First Baptist Church of Palos Verdes Ca from Matthew 18.15-20

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