Turn-Around Tuesday – Who Are You Connected To?

So the enemy took all the possessions of Sodom and Gomorrah, and all their provisions, and went their way. They also took Lot, the son of Abram’s brother, who was dwelling in Sodom, and his possessions, and went their way.” (Genesis 14:11–12, ESV)

They also took Lot, the son of Abram’s brother, who was dwelling in Sodom, and his possessions, and went their way. Troubles come along in life, there’s just no way of escaping that fact. The issue is never, “Will problems come?” Yes, they will come. It’s always a matter of whether we are connected to someone, anyone who will care enough to do something about our problems.

We simply cannot do life alone! Connection is the key to turning our problems around. We need to be connected to someone who cares enough and is powerful enough to help us when life grows dark and the way becomes impossible.

Lot, the nephew of Abraham, hadn’t done much to endear himself to his uncle. However, Abraham cared for Lot. Perhaps more than he should of. When Lot had the choice in the past, he took all of the water rights to the Jordan River, knowing that his uncle had more flocks and herds than he himself had. Yet, Lot’s selfishness wouldn’t share.

Now, the enemies have come. They have taken everything, even Lot and all he had. Lot couldn’t save himself. Lot was a captive. Lot needed rescue from someone who cared enough and was powerful enough to do something about Lot’s lost condition.

Turning around our troubles happens long before our problems happen onto the scene of our lives. If we are going to be rescued from our catastrophes – and they will come – we will need to build good, solid, deep, close friendships with others now.

While Lot could count on his uncle, many of us know our families don’t have the means to rescue us from calamity. We need powerful friends to stand for us when others have stood against us.

Make new friends now. Be genuinely interested in them. Care and pray for them. And include the powerful and well off in that circle. Give them your love and intercession now. And, should you need it one day, they may just unlock your prison of pain and suffering.

 

Turn-Around Tuesdays are designed to bring hope and help, insight and encouragement to those of us who are simply overwhelmed by the flood of problems life throws at us. No one is immune to trials and troubles, but God has a way of lifting us from life’s torrents. Each short thought is written by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith, Executive Director of Eagles In Leadership, and comes from his life-journey with the God who never leaves us or forsakes us. He welcomes your comments below.

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Magnificent Marriage Monday – The Best Intentions of God’s Design!

He slept with Hagar, and she became pregnant. When she saw that she was pregnant, her mistress became contemptible to her. Then Sarai said to Abram, “You are responsible for my suffering! I put my slave in your arms, and when she saw that she was pregnant, I became contemptible to her. May the Lord judge between me and you.”” (Genesis 16:4–5) 

You are responsible for my suffering! Sin breeds death (Romans 6:23). It doesn’t matter if you have “permission” from your wife to do something. If God has already set a standard or a command, then you know what is right and what is wrong.

Abraham’s act of unbelief had mutated into the act of immorality. Now, technically, it may have been acceptable by the standards of the day. Culture may have permitted it. The people of faith may have accepted it. But when God established marriage, He was clear about the methods and limits when He said, “For the man no helper was found corresponding to him. So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to come over the man, and he slept. God took one of his ribs and closed the flesh at that place. Then the Lord God made the rib he had taken from the man into a woman and brought her to the man.” (Genesis 2:20–22)

When God made marriage, He made it as a couple, a man and a wife for life. Abraham and Sarah had decided to add a third person to their marriage bed; an extension God never intended or designed. Thus, their choice missed the mark of God’s expressed will, which is the definition of sin.

Every husband has the role of exemplifying the desires of God in their marriage. This means, that he has the responsibility to uphold the highest standard of morality and faith, both for his and his wife’s future and spiritual growth.

Today, before you step into a questionable path, even if your wife is in agreement, ask yourself a simple question: Does this represent both the revealed will of God and the best intentions of God’s design in this area of our lives? When your answer is, “Yes!” to both of these then proceed with bold confidence that you are walking in faith and have the smile of God upon your lives.

 

Magnificent Marriage Mondays are helpful hints, clues, ideas, and solutions for the child of God who is looking for a spouse, in a relationship with someone, or are already married. Each post seeks to bring help, hope, and honesty to your life and make the rest of your life, the best of your life. They are written by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith, Executive Director of Eagles In Leadership, and come from his 38 years, 5 months and 2 days experience with his wife, Melodee, who was promoted to Heaven on November 11, 2017. He is currently seeking God’s will for his new life partner. He welcomes your comments below.

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Hope For Today – Loving God With All We Have!

I’m Dr. Matthew Lee Smith and I want to share some Hope For Today about, Loving God with all we have!

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Faith Filled Friday – Accepting the “Ask” of God!

And the angel of the Lordcalled to Abraham a second time from heaven and said, “By myself I have sworn, declares the Lord, because you have done this and have not withheld your son, your only son, I will surely bless you, and I will surely multiply your offspring as the stars of heaven and as the sand that is on the seashore. And your offspring shall possess the gate of his enemies, and in your offspring shall all the nations of the earth be blessed, because you have obeyed my voice.”” (Genesis 22:15–18, ESV) 

Because you have done this and have not withheld your son, your only son, I will surely bless you. Faith receives after faith acts. We have to step forward before God steps up. God will plant the blessings in our lives afterwe choose to trust His words and do what He commands us to do. 

Once Isaac was sacrificed, albeit only by choice and not by death (See Genesis 22:10-11), God’s blessings kicked in. Notice that this is the second timein this encounter that God assured Abraham from Heaven that all was well. If we want to hear God’s voice we will have to first choose to release who or what we’ve been holding too tightly. 

Once Abraham had acted to sacrifice the son of his old age, God promised untold benefits: assured blessing, exponential multiplication, possessive victory, and unbridled philanthropy all flowed from his selfless act of obedience to God. 

Sometimes the “ask” of God is so great that we shrink back in doubt and our faithlessness consigns us to a life of “could have been” instead of “should have been.” Abraham swallowed his fears and walked by faith, not by sight. Today he is called, “The Father of Faith,” because of such choices.

What will you be called when you are long gone? Will anyone remember you? If they do, what will you be remembered for? Will it be for that one moment when all of life changed because you were selfless and obedient to God or will people remember you for your selfishness and refusal to work and walk with God?

Faith chooses to accept the “ask” of God, no matter the size of potential pain because it knows that the heart of God is wise and compassionate. Faith trusts the character of God. Do you? 

Faith Filled Fridays hope to boost your trust in God and accelerate your daring and courage in everyday life. Dr. Matthew Lee Smith, Executive Director of Eagles In Leadership, writes each encouragement out of a heart that has known both great joy and great loss – his wife of 38 years, 5 months and 2 days was promoted to Heaven on November 11, 2017. Through every experience, God has proven Himself more than faithful and trustworthy. He welcomes your comments below.

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Train Them Thursday – When Worship Flows!

Now after Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea in the days of Herod the king, magi from the east arrived in Jerusalem, saying, “Where is He who has been born King of the Jews? For we saw His star in the east and have come to worship Him.”” (Matthew 2:1–2, NASB95) 

We saw His star in the east and have come to worship Him. Worship. It’s the natural response of a disciple’s heart to the One who has rescued them from their past life and promised them a new life. Out of gratitude and joy, fully devoted followers of Jesus long to step into His presence and give Him the honor that is due His name. 

And perhaps that is where we can make a significant observation. Worship flows from the longing of a grateful heart. And when it flows, there is no expense, no cost that is out of bounds in the pursuit of honoring our God.

Consider these men of Persia (current Iran). As they observed the stars and saw the phenomenon, they knew a new King was born and mounted a trek to see Him and bring Him gifts that would rival His worth. Perhaps knowing the Messiah was coming to Israel from the writings and wisdom passed down from Daniel of old, they sought some sort of sign of His coming.

Now, at extreme cost and great effort, they assembled their team, hired their security, acquired their provisions, and set out on the more than 1,000 mile journey to see He who has been born King of the Jews.” For these men, no inconvenience was too great!

Admire their conviction. Appreciate their sacrifice. Imitate their devotion. If this is what men from a distant land did thousands of years ago to honor the One who was but born, not knowing His name or the fame that would come by dying for the souls of humanity, how much more should we demonstrate His worth through out actions?

As we reflect on the magi for one more moment, perhaps in your heart of hearts you realize that worship does not flow in such generous rivers. Your sacrifices are far less than extravagant. Your inconveniences are much more annoying than overcome. 

Could it be that there is a need within you to reflect and then return to your first love? Allow His love to flow through you again!

Train Them Thursdays seeks to wed the Great Commission directive of Jesus with the practice He employed while on Earth. Each nugget is meant to encourage the reader with a “can-do” spirit to realize that discipleship is something each person is both capable of and empowered to accomplish. Dr. Matthew Lee Smith, Executive Director of Eagles In Leadership, writes each thought and they flow out of decades of his tried and true field-testing in multiple settings from rural to inner city. He welcomes your comments below.

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Willing Worker Wednesday – Using Wisdom In An Evil World!

So he got up, took the child and His mother, and entered the land of Israel. But when he heard that Archelaus was ruling over Judea in place of his father Herod, he was afraid to go there. And being warned in a dream, he withdrew to the region of Galilee. Then he went and settled in a town called Nazareth to fulfill what was spoken through the prophets, that He will be called a Nazarene.” (Matthew 2:21–23, HCSB) 

But when he heard that Archelaus was ruling over Judea in place of his father Herod, he was afraid to go there. And being warned in a dream, he withdrew to the region of Galilee. Obedience to God isn’t supposed to be at the price of our senses. “For we walk by faith, not by sight,” (2 Corinthians 5:7, HCSB) However, God expects us to be a part of the conversation. After all, we have a relationship with God. We talk together as a willing worker of Jesus.

When Joseph was returning to Israel at God’s command, despite the fact that Herod was dead, he wanted no entanglements with the former king’s son, Archelaus. Who knew if Herod’s son would act as deadly as the father did? Wisdom called for putting some distance between his family and the potential tyrant in Judah. 

And there you have it. Wisdom is the application of God’s words to one’s real life scenario at the moment. It is not in any way finding some scheme to disobey God. No, on the contrary, wisdom is the desire to make sure we fulfill both the letter and the intentof God’s words to the fullest. Joseph understood God was returning his family because it was safe.Archelaus ruling had the potential to be unsafeto his family – to all families. Thus, a move out of his jurisdiction fulfilled both the letter and the intent of God’s words. 

Servant leaders of Jesus seek to comply with the will and whim of Jesus. God’s leadership inus should show throughus by our wisdom. Being attentive to the command and the culture is imperative if we are to successfully navigate the evil that is in the world today. 

As you listen to God’s instructions, as you open your Bible daily, remember the still, small voice of God within through the Holy Spirit seeks to lead and guide us. Dialoguing about the words of God and their application is what great servant leadership is all about. 

Willing Worker Wednesdays are dedicated to explaining the core realities of servant leadership – the Biblical principles and methods used by God’s faithful people throughout time. They further reflect the lifestyle of Jesus, the King of kings and Lord of lords as He walked on this earth announcing the Kingdom of God had arrived. These brief lessons are written by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith, Executive Director of Eagles In Leadership, and come from his extensive ministry within the local church, in higher education, in church consulting and as a Biblical author and leader. He welcomes your comments below.

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Turn-Around Tuesdays – When God Affirms Our Generous Choices!


The Lord said to Abram, after Lot had separated from him, “Lift up your eyes and look from the place where you are, northward and southward and eastward and westward, for all the land that you see I will give to you and to your offspring forever.” (Genesis 13:14–15, ESV) 

The Lord said to Abram, after Lot had separated from him, “Lift up your eyes and look.”Sometimes making the hard call of being generous leaves us with feelings of fear and hopelessness. While we may put on a brave front, inside we are trembling with questions of insecurity. “Did we do the right thing? What am I going to now? Why was I so generous? What was I thinking?

 As Abram watched and listened, his nephew chose: “And Lot lifted up his eyes and saw that the Jordan Valley was well watered everywhere like the garden of the Lord, like the land of Egypt, in the direction of Zoar. (This was before the Lord destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah.) So Lot chose for himself all the Jordan Valley, and Lot journeyed east. Thus they separated from each other.” (Genesis 13:10–11, ESV) 

In case you missed it, or were distracted for some reason, Abram and Lot have animals, lots of animals. Nephew Lot chooses all the water in the valley! Talk about a gut-punch! As he chooses he seems to forget that he would be a homeless beggar over a 1,000 miles away right now at best, and more likely dead had it not been for the kindness of his uncle, Abram. And this is how Lot repays his kindness. 

Is it fear that grips Abram? We won’t know until we ask him. What we do know is that God rushed in with assurance that all would be more than well. While Lot got the water of the Jordan River right now, Abraham and his family got the Promised Land forever.

It’s easy to fear after being generous. In fact, I would subscribe to the idea that it’s normal. But thank God we aren’t normal. We serve a supernaturalGod that loves to show up and show off! While everyone else is counting us out, God is counting our blessings. 

What’s eating away at you? Did you give too much to someone? Are you lying awake at night worrying about it? Isn’t this a good time to “Lift up your eyes and look from the place where you are?”God is about to bless you more abundantly than you could ever imagine!

Turn-Around Tuesdays are designed to bring hope and help, insight and encouragement to those of us who are simply overwhelmed by the flood of problems life throws at us. No one is immune to trials and troubles, but God has a way of lifting us from life’s torrents. Each short thought is written by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith, Executive Director of Eagles In Leadership, and comes from his life-journey with the God who never leaves us or forsakes us. He welcomes your comments below.

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Magnificent Marriage Monday – When Leadership Fails!


Abram’s wife Sarai had not borne any children for him, but she owned an Egyptian slave named Hagar. Sarai said to Abram, “Since the Lord has prevented me from bearing children, go to my slave; perhaps through her I can build a family.” And Abram agreed to what Sarai said.” (Genesis 16:1–2)

And Abram agreed to what Sarai said.Agreement between husband and wife is what the fabric of a magnificent marriage is all about. Coming together, discussing options, weighing the pros and cons, seeking the Lord’s will are all parts of doing life together as man and wife. 

However, when an idea is contrary to God’s design for our marriage, it must be identified as not being God’s will and eliminated from our options as a couple. Ultimately, it is the husband’s task to lovingly bring the heart of God into the discussion. We advance over our obstacles by supernatural faith, not by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7). 

Even though God had challenged Abram to, “Look at the sky and count the stars, if you are able to count them. Your offspring will be that numerous,”(Genesis 15:5) Abram and Sarai couldn’t have children! The years passed and no child appeared. Nothing happened. Nothing. Zero. No baby. 

So, in the restlessness of those long nights after too many frustrating attempts, something began to brew inside Sarai’s head. While she roamed about she saw other “families” solve the infertility problem with a “surrogate” mother. Somehow the thinking was that the baby of Abram and another woman would be “deemed” Sarai’s child. This would solve the problem of her lack of a son! 

Or so she thought. Abram agreed for whatever reason we can only speculate about until we ask him face-to-face. But when we read ahead we discover God never acknowledges the son of this union between the slave girl, as the child of the Promise. In fact, God sends him away at Sarai’s behest. Abram’s acquiescence was not God’s will.

As the husband, our task is to stand up for the ways of God, and believe that He to be able to do the impossible! (Luke 1:37) God loves to meet our faith with supernatural answers! Husbands, trust Him!

Magnificent Marriage Mondays are helpful hints, clues, ideas, and solutions for the child of God who is looking for a spouse, in a relationship with someone, or are already married. Each post seeks to bring help, hope, and honesty to your life and make the rest of your life, the best of your life. They are written by Dr. Matthew Lee Smith, Executive Director of Eagles In Leadership, and come from his 38 years, 5 months and 2 days experience with his wife, Melodee, who was promoted to Heaven on November 11, 2017. He is currently seeking God’s will for his new life partner. He welcomes your comments below.

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Hope For Today – It’s All About Our Focus

I’m Dr. Matthew Lee Smith and I want to share some Hope For Today to remind us that, It’s All About Our Focus!

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Faith Filled Friday – Trusting God to Do the Right Thing!

Then Abraham reached out his hand and took the knife to slaughter his son. But the angel of the Lordcalled to him from heaven and said, “Abraham, Abraham!” And he said, “Here I am.” He said, “Do not lay your hand on the boy or do anything to him, for now I know that you fear God, seeing you have not withheld your son, your only son, from me.”” (Genesis 22:10–12, ESV) 

Now I know that you fear God, seeing you have not withheld your son, your only son, from me. What are you withholding from God? What do you refuse to give Him? You know what I mean. Please don’t flip the page and look for a more comforting thought. It may mean the difference between the future you’re about to live and the one God envisions for you. 

God knows our hearts and He knows our possibilities. He sets up a series of tests in life, and if you have read Scripture carefully you know that God keeps testing us until we step into Heaven (See James 1.2-5). Each test is designed to validify the faith we think we possess as well as confirm to us that we are, in fact, capable of so much morethan we ever dreamed of. 

As Abraham enjoyed this “impossible” child in his old age, God called him to relinquish the boy as a sacrifice of love. The thing he held on to most dearly God asked for more definitely. Yet Abraham knew God was able to do the impossible before he walked up the mountain alone with Isaac. Listen as “Abraham said to his young men, “Stay here with the donkey; I and the boy will go over there and worship and come again to you.”” (Genesis 22:5, ESV) 

Faith trusts God to do the right thing by us. When He makes the big “ask” we know God will reward our faith in greater ways than we can imagine. Abraham knew the promise of God and the God of the promise. “Look toward heaven, and number the stars, if you are able to number them. So shall your offspring be.”(Genesis 15:5, ESV) 

There could be no abundance of offspring if Abraham’s “only son” was dead. So, by faith, he walked up the mountain and trusted God for the results. 

Where do you need to walk today in faith? Where do you need to trust God by giving Him what you’ve been holding too tightly?

Faith Filled Fridays hope to boost your trust in God and accelerate your daring and courage in everyday life. Dr. Matthew Lee Smith, Executive Director of Eagles In Leadership, writes each encouragement out of a heart that has known both great joy and great loss – his wife of 38 years, 5 months and 2 days was promoted to Heaven on November 11, 2017. Through every experience, God has proven Himself more than faithful and trustworthy. He welcomes your comments below.

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